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5. Start Thinking Rich
Guests: Adrian Brambila and Bradley T. Klontz, Psy.D., CFP®
Adrian Brambila, the son of immigrant parents from Mexico, rose to TikTok stardom by redefining “real wealth,” and showcasing his journey of earning $1.7 million in one year while living in a van.
Bradley T. Klontz, Psy.D., CFP® is a financial psychologist, professor, and researcher who has co-authored eight books on the psychology of money. He comes from a broken family and grew up poor but still became a millionaire in his 30s. Today, he is the world’s leading expert in the psychology of money.
They are today’s guests and the coauthors of the book, Start Thinking Rich, which is precisely what we will talk about on today’s episode.
Show Notes
00:00 Introduction
01:46 What motivated you to read Start Thinking Rich
07:45 Only poor people think the system is rigged
13:00 How to avoid the wrong mentality
17:00 Poor people buy stuff, rich people own time.
30:32: If you want to get rich, go to college, get rich, and buy a house (or not)
34:45 Is it better to rent or buy a house?
40:42 Get a roommate, get on the bus, get sober, get bald, and get a side hustle or shut up and be poor
43:30 The ultimate side hustle for kids
48:20 It’s not your fault if you were born poor, but it’s your fault if you die poor.
54:45 One piece of simple and actionable advice for your marriage
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4. Fraud Protection
Guest: Kathy Stokes, Director of Fraud Prevention Programs with AARP
Today we welcome Kathy Stokes, a nationally recognized leader in the consumer fraud arena. As Director of Fraud Prevention Programs with AARP, Kathy leads AARP’s social mission work to educate older adults on the risks that fraud represents to their financial security.
Since 2019, she and her team have vastly expanded AARP’s leadership in this space, including the creation of a new victim support program, a multi-year campaign to end the use of gift cards in fraud, and the formation of a national effort to fundamentally transform how our country addresses consumer fraud.
Kathy currently serves on the advisory council to the Board of the International Association of Financial Crimes Investigators and on the advisory council to the Senior Issues and Diminished Capacity Committee of the North American Securities Administrators Association.
For today’s topic, we will discuss modern fraud prevention strategies that are practical and can help keep your family safe.
Show Notes
0:00:00 Introduction
0:01:30 How can husbands and fathers effectively communicate with their families about the risks of consumer fraud without causing unnecessary fear?
0:07:13 What are the common tactics fraudsters use that families should be aware of to protect themselves?
0:19:07 Are there specific financial security measures that folks should prioritize to safeguard their families from potential fraud?
0:22:45 How can families navigate the balance between convenience and security in their online financial transactions and interactions?
0:28:47 What resources or tools do you recommend for those who want to stay proactive in protecting their own parents who are likely elderly from the ever-evolving landscape of consumer fraud?
0:32:18 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want our listeners to walk away knowing from today’s episode?
Resources
AARP Fraud Watch Network
AARP Fraud helpline: 877-908-3360
3. How to Have a Good Relationship
Guest: Aja Evans, Author and President of the Financial Therapy Association
Aja Evans is a speaker and author of her debut book, Feel Good Finance. She is the incoming President of the Financial Therapy Association, consults with fintech companies, and has been featured in major news outlets such as The New York Times, Business Insider, NerdWallet, and CNBC.
Today we discuss the essentials of a good relationship, such as managing finances as a couple, handling income swings, and dividing household responsibilities. She discusses joint finances, separate accounts, and the importance of early money conversations in relationships.
Show Notes
0:00 Introduction
1:09 Can you introduce yourselves and give us a brief background on your journey together as a couple?
5:02 How do you divide your finances as a couple?
9:20 How did you approach your initial conversations about money?
10:15 What was your approach to paying off the student loans you brought into the marriage?
12:14 How do you ensure both partners have a say in financial decisions?
16:12 How do you handle managing significant swings in household monthly income?
18:14 How do you divide the tasks needed to run your home?
25:04 What advice do you have for other couples who struggle with financial disagreements?
33:30 Changing gears for a moment, can you share a bit about your upcoming book Feel Good Finance?
37:00 How can couples with two different money stories work through their differences?
42:08 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you can share with our listeners?
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2. Pathfinder: New Year's Resolution Strategies to Financial Independence
Guest: FIRE Movement Godfather, JL Collins
Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Ross, Christian, and Brian host national experts who share ideas to manage money and the home as teammates.
Today’s guest is the Godfather of the FIRE Movement, JL Collins. JL’s first book, The Simple Path to Wealth, has sold over 500,000 copies worldwide.
If you’re looking for ideas to reach your financial new year’s resolution goals, look no further than JL Collin’s wisdom shared in Simple Path to Wealth, and his new book, Pathfinders, Extraordinary Stories of People Like You on the Quest for Financial Independence―And How to Join Them.
Enjoy today’s discussion with JL Collins who will help you be your own pathfinder to begin your year.
Show Notes
00:00 Introduction
01:32 JL helps our listeners understand what the FIRE movement is and the different types of FIRE movements.
02:47 JL shares ideas for listeners who might not want to go all-in on the FIRE movement but want to apply some of his countless lessons
05:35 FU money
08:43 Why a house is a lousy investment, and other pitfalls of spending money you don’t have.
11:53 JL’s approach to eliminating the chains of debt.
14:15 The most important rules of the road for couples who want to save more.
17:04 Defining and explaining the power of investing in index funds
23:01 How to manage money in a way to have less stress and more freedom in your life.
29:54 Conclusion
Resources
Click here to visit JL Collins website
Click here to purchase Pathfinders: Extraordinary Stories of People Like You on the Quest for Financial Independence―And How to Join Them
1. Fair Play: A System for Spouses to Manage the Home
Guest: Eve Rodsky, Author of Fair Play
Eve Rodsky transformed a “blueberries breakdown” into a catalyst for social change when she applied her Harvard trained background in organizational management to ask the simple yet profound question: What would happen if we treated our homes as our most important organizations?
Her New York Times bestselling book and Reese’s Book Club Pick, Fair Play, is a gamified life-management system that helps partners rebalance their domestic workload and reimagine their relationship. Her book was also the inspiration for the Apple TV documentary Fair Play.
Eve Rodsky received her B.A. in economics and anthropology from the University of Michigan and her J.D. from Harvard Law School.
Today we will discuss how you can use the Fair Play System to manage your home as a team with your partner.
Show Notes
00:00:00 Introduction
00:01:28 What do husbands have to say after experiencing the Fair Play System?
00:04:20 What prompted building out the Fair Play system?
00:12:15 Can you walk us through the basics of your Fair Play system?
00:24:39 A brilliant example of success using the Fair Play System that husbands will love.
00:31:01 Why men hurt when they don’t have a role in their home
00:37:48 How do you work with your spouse to manage all of the food responsibilities?
00:44:28 Why is the Fair Play book, the Fair Play cards, or the Fair Play documentary the ideal Valentine’s Day gift?
00:45:40 Where can our listeners learn more about Fair Play?
00:46:15 Valentine’s Day Assignment
Click here to learn more about the Fair Play System.
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